So guess i'm back where I started blogging the first time, BLOGSPOT . More flexibility..

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Ever thought of becoming another person? Maybe a celeb? A millionaire? Or the only thought you have is to dream to be the way you are now, living each day? What about changing your personality, or who you are, just to suit a special someone? or just to "click" with the happening bunch? I'll admit people do change when time goes by, change for the better, not for the wrong reason. I mean no harm dreaming to fantasize about living in paradise, but changing who you are, just to be welcomed by certain people, its simply outrages. I'm not talking about migrating to a country and suiting yourself to the local customs, I'm talking about impressing and fitting into a group. Change your bad habbits? yes please do, but not change your whole. You may be able to change how a person reacts in front of you, but, can you really change how a person thinks? how a person express themselves? how a person wants to be heard and remembered? Can you really change all that? If you can, think for one second, what makes us different from one another then? Skin colour, looks? Heck peel of the skin of a green apple and a red apple, the inside will always be the same. What sepparates the two is its own taste, its either sweet or sour. Imagine if all apples are sweet, what fun will that be?

Everyone is different in their own way, and yet, some of us refuse to accept who they are. If a person does not fufill a certain standard, expectation, quality in their personality, a barrier is created in between. Language is not an obstacle in our way, stopping us to communicate and mix around, but flaws seen in a person becomes the main support for the barriers. Language is just something minor.

So once again, should a person change just to be accepted by a minority groups? Personally, I dont think so. I think the minorities should try accepting a person for who they are, how special they are, though sometimes, advising them to change lil for the better is okay, considering that I know what he or she had done, so I guess it's okay for a slight change to blend in, but not change everything. I'm starting not to make sense, i've read that sentence 3 times, and its still a blur.

365 days a year, 8760 hours a year, 525600 minutes a year, 31536000 seconds a year, I don't think spending each day keeping negative images and impressions about someone is useful to anyone ( Why do I keep using the days, hours, minutes thing =P ) . Don't you think its a waste of time? You do the math...

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Just shifted here from friendster blog, dont mind me laying off long entries for now...

~Jian
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